The right girl
I was chatting with a dear male friend of mine and we got into the guy-girl talk..
I asked him if I can quote what he said and he agreed, so here you go..
A description of the girl he is looking for:
and a girl who can think and know that im a good guy
ya3ni min el a5er ma bet3'ar
coz that kills me.
and who will hug me when i need a hug
and treat me as a child when im angry coz i really need that
The last two lines are what caught my attention. This guy really knows what he needs.
Needs not wants!! or dreams about
It was not long lean legs, not long blond hair, not big blue eyes
It was not fashionably dressed, not financially independant, not career-wise successful
It was not her father's name, not her last name, not her mother's society
It was her whom he was describing and in a way so simple yet very true
'who will hug me when I need a hug
and treat me as a child when Im angry coz I really need that'
This guy is describing her reactions in what he pictures the most hasty times they will go through. When he is sad, and needs a hug, and when he is mad, and needs to calm down.
These two lines are the best I ever heard about the subject
I do not like to be judgemental, but I must say most guys I have met (and not all) do not know what really matters in choosing the right girl.
I asked him if I can quote what he said and he agreed, so here you go..
A description of the girl he is looking for:
and a girl who can think and know that im a good guy
ya3ni min el a5er ma bet3'ar
coz that kills me.
and who will hug me when i need a hug
and treat me as a child when im angry coz i really need that
The last two lines are what caught my attention. This guy really knows what he needs.
Needs not wants!! or dreams about
It was not long lean legs, not long blond hair, not big blue eyes
It was not fashionably dressed, not financially independant, not career-wise successful
It was not her father's name, not her last name, not her mother's society
It was her whom he was describing and in a way so simple yet very true
'who will hug me when I need a hug
and treat me as a child when Im angry coz I really need that'
This guy is describing her reactions in what he pictures the most hasty times they will go through. When he is sad, and needs a hug, and when he is mad, and needs to calm down.
These two lines are the best I ever heard about the subject
I do not like to be judgemental, but I must say most guys I have met (and not all) do not know what really matters in choosing the right girl.
posted by Maijaury at
12:34
14 Comments:
Touching...
This friend of yours is a real poet, his words are really sentimental. But lets put our feet on the ground, we've seen and heard about MANY people getting divorced, for a MANY reasons, all sum up at the end to a single point; improper choice! Most people (in Jordan) get married for money, social class, nationality, ethics, beauty (also called heat sometimes), business, or love least of all, but none of these is enough, not alone, not even altogether.
The three corner-stones of a successful relationship (to me) are ideological, mental, and social compatibility, and I believe that in the presence of these three love can grow and thrive, and vice versa...
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Anonymous, at 7:42:00 PM
No comment for what Mais said!
for Rami: talking is easy, right?
Amr
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Anonymous, at 11:23:00 AM
you know what!
i cant keep my mouth shut Mais.
My comment: 3anjad 2ennek silly be your last blog! the question is: can you be more silly?
Amr
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Anonymous, at 11:47:00 AM
Amr, It seems you're missing the fact that IT'S HER BLOG and she's free to say whatever she wants... you don't like it, it's simple.. don't read! :)
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and life goes on..., at 11:09:00 AM
to "and life goes on":
true, but if you see her previous blogs you would see i am a faithful fan and always have comments.
It is really disturbing and pathetic that when someone is being faithful and you like what s/he says, no one comment, but when you don’t, you simply say: if you don’t like it; don’t read it!
When will we accept the other opinion!?
Anyways, nice blog "and life goes on"
Amr
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Anonymous, at 11:54:00 AM
Dear Amr,
I am sorry that the entry bothered you that much! but its your right and i really respect it. you are a faithful fan and your opinion is always welcomed. hope you'll like my next blog.
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Maijaury, at 12:16:00 PM
Dear Amr,
I am sorry that the entry bothered you that much. Come to think of it, it would have not if you did not take it personally. Considering the entry 'SILLY' shows that you have no interest in the quote I mentioned or the subject itself!! Pitty..
Dear 'and life goes on',
Thank you for the comment Dood :) Appreciate that. But I want people to reply in what they think. They all are adults and take responsibilty of what they write here or elsewhere (except for the anonymouses! hehe)
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Maijaury, at 12:23:00 PM
I think I am naive enough to trust you Amr when I entered from your
PC to my account and did not delete my password! And YOU were wicked enough and untrustworthy to publish the first comment as ME!
Not very smart Amr
It is shameful actually at least to me
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Maijaury, at 2:17:00 PM
What!! What you're talking about!! whats wrong with you.. kol had le2anni 2olet your last post was silly?? Crazy
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Anonymous, at 2:29:00 PM
Hey you, I disagree, and this whole thing is shallow and empty cause I disagree, and if you dont think that way I do then you're empty, and so I have to disagree...
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Anonymous, at 12:17:00 AM
Dear noise,
you have the right to disagree, and since it's an open blog, and even if you aint a faithful reader, you have the right to comment, and the right to disagree...
but that's not how people should declare their disagreement, they should point out the point(s) they don’t like, then state their opinion, compare the two opinions and then disagree...
by the way, I don’t think any man on earth can sum up what he wants in his girl in two or three lines and be considered "specific" and "determinant", or thought of as someone who knows what he needs/wants, I believe the man/woman relationship is an integration of two entities to form another called “family”, and this integration can never succeed if not well-considered and planned for I believe... a well-thought of relationship definitely needs more than a hug on when needed… way more…
that's maybe what you wanted to say noise... am I right??
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Anonymous, at 12:29:00 AM
dear rami,
yes, you're right, my bad, I didn't express my point properly, I just want to add that japos invented new pillows that can hug, I think buying one is cheaper than getting married if that's all someone needs..., for myself, I care about content the most, yet long lean legs are a huge plus...
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Anonymous, at 12:36:00 AM
Finally someone else dares to tell Mais the truth... Hug to all of you... lol :)
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Anonymous, at 12:13:00 PM
Dear anonymous...
I didn't know I was that good in empathy... yours, noise
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Anonymous, at 3:03:00 PM
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